Ok, I know this isn´t the place to talk about things but if u could help me, i would be very happy.

I stick with my gf for about 3 years but now theres another guy and she is interesseted in him.
She didn´t told me about that but u can notice that when you see her talking with him.
I don´t know what to do and how to fight, I tried with flowers and presents and that kind but it doesn´t helps.
Any ideas what to do that do?????

Thank You

Bareer

just confront her and see what she says also there are many girls outthere you can find another one.

yes, talking to her is the best you can do.
otherwise you only risk to get hurt if you dont speak about it

Hey there,

Don't worry about it. Guys do the same thing. If she really cares about you she'll see the mistake she's making. If not, there really are other girls out there.

Don't stay in a abusive relationship. If she does want this guy, let her go. Have confidence in yourself. YOU FIRST then her. You'll find that confidence goes very far with women. Let her go out with Bozo. That will bring her back to you if she wants you.

If she does'nt come back, remember you have what it takes to have a good person in your life. Maybe the powers that be are trying to save you from something that could hurt you really bad in the future.

Think positively. And whatever you do DON'T TALK ABOUT THIS GUY WITH HER. Drop the whole subject and start thinking about how you can improve your own quality of life. If she's truly right for you, you'll know. If not, no big deal. Go out and live.

Life is too short to feel like you do. Tackle life by the balls and have a good time. You'll find people will want to be around you. You may even find someone new.

Best Wishes and Good Luck!! Don't dwell on this!!

I hate to sound like the stereotypical cromagnon "male", but throw down the gender gauntlet. Apparently if you can "see" the way she acts when she's around this other guy, than she's doing it right in front of you - DISRESPECT! OK, try talking to her first, ask her in a non-threatening way if her interest in this other guy is going to jeopardize what you and her have worked so hard to create. If she says "yes", respect her honesty, be a man, *sack* up and "adios". If she says otherwise, than be smart enough to know that 0.0152% of females in the continenetal United States would tell the truth about such a situation and dump her anyways. Simply based on the fact that she has the audacity to flaunt her interest in another man while you're within earshot is grounds enough for immediate dismissal with extreme predjudice (non-violent of course). You, my friend, are a man. You share the say chromosomal mapping as Ernest Hemingway, Steve McQueen, Groucho Marx and many other testoster-ones.

I like both points above. Be a man dude!!!

Act interested in another girl in front of your gf. That might have the same effect on her, and she will worry about losing you.

Find out where that guy lives, and slit his throat while he sleeps. Then bury him in the woods. Then go burn your cloths somewhere. Then go set his house on fire. U won't have to worry about him anymore.

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Bend her over the fricking counter at Dempsey's and show her how a real man can give it to her.

Dude....your screwed. She is *******. Right now *********.

Seriously....its time to dump her. If she is already looking now...she sure as shit will be looking even more later. Take it from a guy who has just about seen it all. Time to move on.

Pump her in the ass though before you break up.

Good Luck.

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You guys, freaking relax man. Don't drive the poor lad nutty for C#%$#$% Sake.

Dude, listen. Ask yourself this.
Is it worth it, the headache?
If she really wanted you, she would be there no matter what.
It is sort of obvious she likes the other dude, so let her go man. Save yourself as much grief as possible. Trust me been there, done that. Just keep it cool bro.

OMG! Those are great ideas! Well.....just the "*******" and "******" remarks.

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Hey I know a girl whose boyfriend is a warp2search website addict....
she comes round my place and is always on about how he cant satisfy her cuase of his addiction to warp2search etc

being the nice guy I am I always give her a good "servicing"

cheers dude ....

That's the price one has to pay being addicted to W2S. :wink:

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